For Women of All Ages

You know, sometimes I just don't get women. I have grown up in a predominantly female environment. I among other guys should know more about women, but then again like other guys I get lost trying to figure them out. There is so much for us to know about them. So many questions I would like to ask and to understand what lies between their ears. Even if we do get answers it would be so crypted that even the most sophisticated code breaking machine ever designed by man would come to a complete meltdown.
Why do they want to make it so hard for us? There are plenty of decent guys out there but some how or another we always get brushed off for another of our species that has the tendency to treat them lower than whale sh*t. What is so intriguing about guys who act like jerks? They'll just charm her, get her, break her heart, dump her and go after her sister/cousin/best friend/worst enemy/mum. You get the picture.
Call me a whinner if you must, but those same girls who get their hearts torn to shreads will use US as their safety nets. They'll come to us for pity, reassurance and cheering up. When they're hearts are mended and patched they get swept off their feet by another jerk who treats them like dirt and the whole damn process starts over again.
Sure, we get a reputation for being a "nice guy" among the girls. You know, the guy who is "understanding" and "caring". And that "guy" will forever be the safety net for other women who got her cardiovascular pump stomped on by some insensitive S.O.B. He'll never be known as relationship material by the girls. He'll be looked upon as a younger/older brother or a "best friend" who has little or no chance of sparking something special with anybody because he's too much of a nice guy to break someone's heart if the inevitable occurs.
I used to think that this is just a phase most girls go through. Then it'll stop when she reaches her 20s. But man oh man I've been proven wrong countless of times.
Looks like I've been up too long. Before I get long winded about this I would just like to say to those women out there who are looking for the perfect guy. He's not the guy playing in a rock band, or some super-successful tycoon. He is the guy who'll care for you and love you as who you really are regardless of anything else. I know its hard to find a guy like that and women would go through trial and error countless of times before finding him but at the end of the day will he be worth it?
Bottom line: Give us decent guys a chance. Who knows? We may pleasantly suprise you.